Here's the reality, just like dating outside of your race opens up the opportunity to more choices and increases your chances to finding true love, dating outside of your zip code does the same thing. When you open up your mind to the idea of talking to everyone (yes, I mean everyone), you allow yourself to be available to others that may not have ever traveled into your neighborhood, city, state or even country. That is, until they met you.
Now I already hear my stubborn folks out there saying; "I ain't moving across the globe for nobody". Well, here's a thought; maybe somebody would move across the world for you. You are worth it right? There are plenty of success stories on the site that tell the tale about people hooking up across state lines and international waters. Take Rene 9 and mmw10aday; they started talking in January and Rene 9 says that in June she'll be moving from Ohio to Florida. Maggie56 was living in the US and xsdev8 was in Australia. Now they are married and both living in Australia. They met on our site. Check out their success story and then think about what you are willing to do to make your connection. Keeping in mind that just because you may not be willing to move, doesn't mean that the other person will feel the same. Shoot, I'd travel 1000 miles to find a nice pair of shoes, so, you know that I'd go just about anywhere for the right man.
Now, let's apply that same logic to the web site. What is finding the right person worth? What is the going rate on happiness these days? If you are already a subscriber to the site, you already know the answer to this question. If not, let's talk about that. Perhaps what's keeping you from making that commitment is that you feel like you shouldn't have to pay to meet other people or date on-line. But you do it anyway. You meet some friends after work for a drink, maybe dinner. Someone catches your eye. You buy them a drink. This process can and does go on for sometime. Maybe if you're lucky, you'll get a phone number out of the deal. Only to call a few days later and learn that the only thing you two have in common is the fact that the other night you were both at the same place at the same time. Now, if you had been a subscriber to the site and after you left having drinks (you still have to go out and socialize and mingle), when you got home you got on line and there are literally hundreds of people on line that are available to talk to you. In a group setting (the lobby), or if you want a one on one...a private chat room. You are able to set the stage and make contact with others and not wait for them to reach out to you. You are in control. Bottom line, you give and take free things everyday. However, do you treat those things the same way that you treat the things that you've paid your hard earned money on? If you became a subscriber, not only do you step up your game and opportunity for more options. You let everyone else know that you are serious about making lifetime connections. You are serious aren't you? If not, that's okay. We want you to keep coming back too, because you probably have a friend that would be perfect for us.
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