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Jun 04 2006
Three Little Words You Don't Want To Hear
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8th of Sep, 2006
People...finish your profiles. I mean really...its not that hard and it will do a world of difference for you. But just be sure you are honest. If you are looking for a gorgeous person dont say "Looking for a nice man/woman". Be real because there are plenty of people that get passed by because they are not the Brad Pitt's or Janet Jackson's that some of you want. If you are honest with what you are looking for then you are less likely to be bothered by someone you wouldnt be interested in.
11th of Sep, 2006
i agree its not like it takes alot of effort to fill out a profile , how will your potential partner know if they are interested in you if you give them no info to get them interested it's not just about a pic .
13th of Sep, 2006
When that is on a profile it shows me the person is either not really serious about finding someone... or they are just plain lazy... either way I don't respond to those profiles because those are not traits I like in people whether friends or more.
17th of Sep, 2006
Yeh that shows how lazy that being is, that even shows your stupidity.
20th of Sep, 2006
Man when I read something like that on someeone's profile I feel that the person is either not really serious about finding someone or they are just lazy... regardless I wont respond to profiles like that at all
25th of Sep, 2006
There are other reasons for "find out later". There are some truths we just don't want to tell.
8th of Oct, 2006
Although I agree that your profile is a great way to sell yourself, I agree with Ann that somethings do not need to be reveal right away.
10th of Oct, 2006
FIND OUT LATER on all of the profile info..and no picture.Sorry, I don't answer and it goes to trash.
16th of Oct, 2006
I like it when people don,t put anything in there profile because I really don,t read them.
17th of Oct, 2006
I hate that too! Also, don't ask me for more info when you don't have a picture or detailed info. My rule is, if you send the message, don't ask me to tell you about me...you initiated the e-mail so tell me about you :)
24th of Oct, 2006
I agree with Coco. Don't ask me to send you a picture to your other email address and you have no picture avail and don't want to post one, requesting that I see a picture first. What are you hiding?
7th of Nov, 2006
When I get a message from someone with a profile full of "find out laters" that message goes right to "send to trash." I'm not interested in trying to solve a mystery.
15th of Nov, 2006
Find out Later??? When i get messages that list "find out later " all thw way down there profile, i automatically delete. I know some will put in the have kids area "fid out later" its either yes or no. bottom line. To me "find out later" is someone not serious on meeting someone or cuz they are hiding something. Not a good way to start off. Hey i took out the time to complete my profile, so she should at least gice a description.
17th of Nov, 2006
NICE ARTICLE ..
WHEN I SEE SOMEONES PROFILE THAT SAYS
FIND OUT LATER..I ALWAYS TELL MYSELF ARE THEY AFRAID TO TELL ME ABOUT THEMSELVES.. BUT WE ALL KNOW NO MATTER WHAT THEY PUT IN THEIR PROFILE IS IT REALLY THEM .. SO THE STATEMENT FIND OUT LATER IS TRUE IN ALL REALTIONSHIPS CAUSE EVEN WHEN YOU KNOW SOMEONE AND YOU GO SEE THEM AND THEN YOU ARE LEFT SAYING IF I ONLY KNEW.. WELL MY THEORY ON THIS IS YOU WILL FIND OUT LATER ALL ABOUT THE MAN OR WOMAN ANYWAYS.. SO YOU MEN AND WOMEN THAT PUT FIND OUT LATER OHHHH WE WILL TRUST ME.. WE ALWAYS FIND OUT LOL..
24th of Nov, 2006
well the only way i respond to someone is if they have their profile filled out.. this tells me they are taking it a little serious. i dont respond to " find out later ". if they do not have a picture i do not respond. but most importantly.. if i can not see them on cam, i NEVER take them serious at all. in this day and age, you have to be very careful with dating.
1st of Dec, 2006
Very interesting. The "find out later" on profiles and nothing else to me means you are hiding something and not having a picture with the find out later.No much to catch my interest.
2nd of Dec, 2006
i totaly agree with jade, great points!!
4th of Dec, 2006
what do people have to hide from, unless they really are not looking for a soul mate.
5th of Dec, 2006
If you don't have the time to complete your profile... how can I believe you will have time for me??? If a profile is not complete or there is not a picture, I pass it by.
10th of Dec, 2006
Yes, i quite agree with you guys, i think people who left there profile incompleted have got something to hide, worse are those without their pictures on.
13th of Dec, 2006
i noticed when people write that, they are not serious about finding somebody special.
13th of Dec, 2006
But why do people do it anyway? To lie? To cheat? To deceive? Crazy people! Can't stand them..... bunch of liars!!!
20th of Dec, 2006
THANKS! I am glad that I am not the only one feeling this way!
30th of Jan, 2007
Yeah guys put in some details!!
10th of Feb, 2007
I think that many people who put---for most of their profile anyway.."find out later"---are just lazy and dont want to be bothered--they may just be surfing and viewing...face value....
10th of May, 2007
Great points!! Some people have an entire profile of Find Out Later. Too bad for them
11th of May, 2007
well, they should take the time if they are serious.
14th of May, 2007
The ones with "find out later" are the ones I skip. It makes me think they have something to hide.
People...finish your profiles. I mean really...its not that hard and it will do a world of difference for you. But just be sure you are honest. If you are looking for a gorgeous person dont say "Looking for a nice man/woman". Be real because there are plenty of people that get passed by because they are not the Brad Pitt's or Janet Jackson's that some of you want. If you are honest with what you are looking for then you are less likely to be bothered by someone you wouldnt be interested in.