May 14 2006

Featured Member: Embrace_Me

Hi this is Jackie from customer service and I have our featured member of the month on the line, her name is Embrace_Me, because I know after hearing this you guys will want to contact her. How are you?


I'm doing fine.


Now you have only been on the site for little while, and how are you finding it?


I could be finding a lot more but I am happy with what I am finding right now.


That's good, and what brought you to the site?


I'm looking for my soul mate


As simple as that?


As simple as that. I am looking for a man whom I am going to grow old with, a man who can knows my every thought, a man who can look into my heart and see my soul. That's a big one isn't it?


That is the big one, that is a very big one but it isn't impossible to get is it?


No it's not, like I tell most people, you have to go through the bad apples to find the good one.


Do you limit yourself to people, I know you live in Oklahoma, you don't limit yourself to that?


No I don't, I look worldwide I'm from Oklahoma and I have never been out of Oklahoma, so to see somewhere and to see what's out there might be that option for me.


And do you like that the site does have people from all over the world?


Yes it does and I have contacted a lot of people all over the world, I mean I answer every message that it comes to me, so if you want to send me a message, you're guaranteed that I'm going to answer it.


And that's really important because people do take the time to look at your photo and read through your profile, so when they send you a message, it's because something that you said interested them.


Exactly, I pretty much read the profiles and if something catches my eye I will send a flirt to them. Some people might not have their picture, so I tell them to post their picture.


Is that important to you?


It's very important; because I'm not seeing just the words they have written but when you look at someone's eyes you can usually tell, like people look at my picture and they say "I see so much love".


I have actually done a little bit of a survey with some of our members and it is interesting, the females are more interested in seeing a photo than the male members which I found rather surprising but, the other thing that I said and I have said this to a few male members and some of you listening can confirm this - I said to them, "Guess what a woman looks at, when she looks at the photo of a guy our the site?"...and these guys go "Ooooh his arms, his thighs, his chest"... and am like NO and the guys asked "Well what are they looking at?"... and I said your EYES!


Exactly!


And they couldn't believe it, when I said the eyes, I said my next preference is your butt (All laughing).


I'm more concerned about the heart.


But you can't see that in a photo, you have to do a few emails before you learn about that.


What I can usually tell if someone is being sincere or not. If they're not sincere I will not give them any time of the day.


How can you tell they are being sincere?


Well if they email me a message and tell me they loved my pictures, but they didn't read my profile, they don't know a thing what my profile said, so that tells me they are only attracted to the picture.


So they haven't taken the time to learn anything about you from what you put. You have put a fair effort into your profile haven't you?


Yes, the profile is something that tells about you. What you're feeling, what you're looking for and if you don't have a good profile no-one is going to know you. They are going to see a picture and think... well she's hot. I could be the hottest thing out there but my attitude could really suck.


Exactly, you did the same thing, like when you're looking for someone when you are going through the site...you're actually looking for good profiles as well?


Yes, I am.


Is it important to change your profile, as you have been in the site for a little while, is it important to evolve your profile?


I think it's very important because like I said earlier when you are on the site, when you first join, you have this thing in your head where I am going to find the man of my dreams. The longer you are on this site the more you grow, because you see all these different people and you get to meet all these different people in the chat room and so you're growing spiritually and emotionally, so why not express that to others through your profile.


That's good cause that's something, I know people who are quite religious, very Christian they put that in their profile...if your interested in certain sports. Did you know you can do a search on keywords in profiles?


No I didn't know that.


Yes, you certainly can. Say for instance you were really into Nascar. You can actually go into the search options and scroll down to the bottom and find where it says keyword search and type in "Nascar" and every person who meets that word in their profile will come up as part of your search, so you can find people who you actually have common interests with.


That's a good idea, I didn't even think about that.


Look out all those people now!


What's one of your common interests?


My commons interest is "poetry".


Poetry, so you can type "poetry" as the keyword and anybody who matches your criteria and has the word poetry in their profile will come up in one your searches.


Mmmh, that gives me MORE options...


I was going to say, I feel more messages coming on!


Boy!


A lot of people don't know that one and I think it is a really powerful search to do because it does help especially, and this is again why you should put in a good profile and put in your interests, and then if people are doing a search on the same sort of interests...and it could be snorkelling, it could be playing poker, it could be anything and you can do an actual search that something that someone has written in their profile and it will come up with those matches.


I know a lot of people know me from the chat room, I always tell them....when do I get to do my success story. For me, I will stop sending flirts and stop sending messages and stop chatting in the chat room, once I find that one special one has caught my eye, but until then I'm a flirt magnet, I am sending messages and I'm in that chat room. Everyone is that chat room is so sweet, I mean they are so friendly. As soon as I joined and starting coming into that chat room, they opened their arms and accepted me with no problem.


And I know you just recently you got a web cam, are you using it in the chat room now?


I used it to the chat room the first time tonight.


And how did you find it?


Oh I found it, very interesting.


Did you have people clicking on you and having a look?


Yes, well at first I didn't know how exactly it worked and BDog told me how it worked. Everything that is blue is people staring at you and I was like "Oh my gosh" and he was like "How many you got?" I said "Oh you don't want to know".


And how are you finding now, you are a white female, one of the things that I know a lot of white females do have an issue with is there are not enough black males coming into the chat and when they do they tend to just sit there and not to say a hell of a lot. What would you say to all those lovely black males out there?


Come on home, come on...(All Laughing) because I'm going to tell you what, it's home to me and it's home to a lot of other females there.


Well thank you very much for being our featured member. Would you like to give a shout out to anyone and say hi?


Hi everyone from the chat room, I love you and as I say sending out Peace, Love and Hope.


And that's your call sign.


That sure is.


That's your tagline....Peace, Love and Hope


That's right.


Thank you very much Embrace_Me and anyone who wishes to contact Embrace_Me, her actual screen name is "Embrace" UNDERSCORE "me" otherwise you won't get her or you might get someone different than Embrace_Me, but I am quite sure that now she has a new way of searching for people that she's going to be contacting you real soon!


Lots and lots of men better watch out!


Thank you very much.


Bye.

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