I am a
Looking for a
Of ethnicity
Get all the latest articles sent right to your desktop via Podcast or Text:

Choose One:


Mar 12 2008
Sex with a stranger

Sex with a stranger
First, I must tell you that I am not the one that picks the photos that go with the articles. If I were, I would have picked that hot steamy one from last month to go with this article. I'm a little scarred to see what picture will go with this one. However, I'm not at all fearful of using my imagination to engage in what the article suggests.
Sex with a stranger Hey, I think that we've know each other long enough for me to share some of my true life stories with you. You know the stories that you usually don't tell unless you are in the company of really close friends a large blender, tequila and maybe a few shot glasses. This actually came up the other day while my sweetie and I were traveling down memory lane. You know the conversation that starts with a "remember the time"?

Well, it happed about eight years ago. I had taken a new job down south and didn't know anyone in the town that I moved to. My work frequently put me in bars and clubs and that has never been my scene. This one particular night, as I was leaving the club, this abnormally good looking guy offered to help me carry some boxes to my car. I mean he was so good looking that I couldn't look at him because I was sure that my mouth would remain open and I wouldn't be able to take my eyes off him.

Short story shorter...he carried the boxes to my car, I looked into the bluest eyes I'd ever seen and words that didn't belong to me, but came out of my mouth said; "I'd love to make breakfast after waking up next to you in the morning". I'm not really sure where that came from, because I don't cook! But, I did. It was the most amazing, uninhibited night of sex that I've ever had. He never asked my name nor I his.

The truth of the matter was that we did not have to ask, we already knew. We had been dating for over two years at the time and we had just engaged in our first night of role-playing. Now, we look back and laugh at all the fun and all the things that we learned from our impromptu acting classes. We both learned that I do not like to be spanked and he doesn't like it when I play doctor with the plastic gloves.

Recently I read an article in Men's Health that talked about this very issue. It gave examples of different role-plays that couples participated in and the magazine even went as far as to do a survey of 4,000 men and women and asked them what role-playing scenarios they would actually consider. I've included the top 5 on a scale of 1-10 with one being No way and 10 being that would be hot:
Women
Men
Strangers in Bar
8
9
Pilot & Flight Attendant
8
8
Employee & Female Boss
6
9
Professor & Co-ed
7
8
Rich Man & French Maid
7
9

I gather from this study that a man is pretty much down for any type of role-play. The funniest part of all was reading this article to my man, whose first response, was "my eyes aren't blue". Of course, all I could say to that was...in my fantasy, they were.

You know you don't have to be face to face to role play either. Try it. The key is that both people know that they are playing a role and stay in character until all actors exit the theatre.

Spread The Word

If you like this article and think other people would benefit from reading it, then help spread the word by adding it to one of the following social bookmarking sites. The more people that vote for this article the more people will know it is worth reading!

Comments (29) del.icio.us Digg

Related Articles

© Chellaul Corporation 2008 | web design by Acu web