Mar 02 2006

Sexual Addictions And Other Vices

Any time, Any place

I like to do everything.Why no?!

Many of the things you listed are dangerous. But they are after all one persons opinions. I want to know who the author of the article is. Who is the preacher in the pulpit? Is it a woman by chance? There is a danger of women running a dating site, because a large number of women tend to be anti male, anti sex, and limit free speach. Im still looking for a chat room and a dating site that truly allows free speech.

Sex is purposely for enjoyment and reproduction by the two consenting parties. Believe me or not, you'll at one time agree with me....

Hi Guys, You have no clue what it is to go out with someone who has an addiction problem.This is about spending 80% of your life's time and energy of planning how to implement fantasies into real life scenarios. It is about permanent conquest, cheating, lying, touching dependants, having sex in public a la George Michael, wanting to be caught in the act, at the hight of intimacy whispering to you that it is time to get the second woman into bed and that You are expectied to find the second woman quickly. The entire relationship is about sex while verbally he denies it, the language is abusive, it involves denigrating and humiliating women during sex, while taking a walk he will screen the environment for suitable bushes and trees, when passing a women he will openly admit that he feels like fucking her. Any sex session starts with him masturbating.It is only about his needs. Consciously he understands that you as his partner have your own sexual needs, which you would expect him to take into account but he is too busy with what he needs. He sees himself as a sexual animal and is proud of this identity. The guy shies away from social life, is unable to maintan or establish friendships with other males, he resents them because he feels inferior. His energy levels are very erratic, he is lethargic, moody and irritable.Incapable to love, highly ego-centric. This is not about believing that specific forms of sex are dirty, it is about a compulsive, highly destructive and desperate behaviour, hurting anyone who wants to love and help the person. There is treatment out there and I hope that those who can admit that they do suffer from this problem will take the initiative to get help. The level of pain this creates is huge.

Sexual addiction is a very serious problem for those affected and their families. Based on some of the other comments here, I don't think some people realize how just how devastating it can be. It's nota joke or every man's dream come true.

VERY INTERESTING ARTICLE.. HMM GOT ME THINKING WHAT AM I ADDICTED TO LOL..

Although the article was interesting, it was not compelling. The article seemed and several comments were focused on male behavior. Women have this issue as well. And it is not always about the actual act of sex itself, but more the feeling or emotion it provides. The destructive behavior continues or has increases to intensity because it takes longer to achieve the feeling being sought.

This is a reply to Sandra's comment: "Hi Guys, You have no clue what it is to go out with someone who has an addiction problem." You have no clue that there are also WOMEN who have sexual addiction problems, and that there are men out there who are trapped in abusive relationships by women who dominate them in and out of the bedroom, and these men are just as afraid as women are in the same situation. You sound like you are someone who is/was in one of these relationships, and as a male who was in the same situation before my divorce, I want you to know that I find it very sexist of you to assume that men have no clue what it is to be with someone who has an addiction problem. Please take this into consideration before making another angry comment like that.

I agree..moderation is good. I know its an addiction for some the same as alcohol or anything else

Hi there,well at first i cannot believe someone can write a good article like this one.I'm guilty as hell cause i'm addicted that i can do it anywhere though i have to admit it's very wrong to be addicted to sex.