When Aries and Cancer come together in a love affair,
it's a case of opposites attracting. Aries is rash and brash while
Cancer is sensitive and emotional. Aries can certainly be emotional --
in a fiery, impetuous way that can completely overwhelm Cancer. Even
though Cancer usually likes to take time with relationships, Aries's
whirlwind approach can be extremely stimulating. Aries, on the other
hand, may find the Cancerian sensitivity appealing; it's a good
balance
for the typical Aries bluntness. Troubles may arise if Cancer's mood
swings or Aries's aggression becomes hurtful. Both Signs must take
time
to listen to their partner's needs and understand that they're coming
from different directions to meet a common goal.
Cancer is the
Sign of Home while Aries is the Sign of Self. One great dynamic between
these two is that both Signs are extremely protective of those they
love. Cancer uses that Crab shell to draw around themselves and their
family and mate when trouble is near, while the Ram uses their strength
and bravery, like a knight in shining armor. Cancer also provides Aries
with a happy domestic life and emotional security. Sometimes they might
build an idealized image of their Aries partner or be overly
possessive,
which can really grate on independent Aries. However, Aries can help by
reassuring their Cancer partner that they are loved and cherished.
Aries
really needs to learn to listen to Cancer: the Crab operates on an
instinctive level and their advice can help Aries avoid making silly
mistakes caused by that typical Aries lack of planning.
Aries is
ruled by the Planet Mars and Cancer is ruled by the emotional Moon.
Mars
was the God of War, and Aries is a soldier meeting every challenge
head-on. Aries's open, passionate nature appeals to Cancer, who often
internalizes emotions and feelings. Cancer can have intense, feminine
energy and Aries can help them learn to release it. The Moon controls
tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life; similarly, Cancer works
behind the scenes (while Aries rushes into battle). Cancer tends to be
sentimental and can teach Aries to slow down and appreciate life
instead
of always rushing on to the next thing.
Aries is a Fire Sign and
Cancer is a Water Sign. These two elements can be a great combination
if
they work together, using both emotion and action to get things done.
Cancer can help Aries slow down and learn to be gentle, while Aries
teaches Cancer to come out of their shells. But Cancer can be
emotionally manipulative -- sometimes there's just too much Water
dampening Aries's enthusiasm. Conversely, too much Fire can cause
Water
to evaporate, leaving Cancer emotionally raw. Aries and Cancer must
talk
openly and freely to ensure their balance is maintained.
Aries
and Cancer are both Cardinal Signs. Both Signs are initiators, but they
have to learn to cooperate. On the surface, Aries is the leader, always
rushing out to meet a challenge, but Cancer is also indirectly in
charge
through emotional control and the ability to weigh the situation.
Cancer
tends to compromise more easily while Aries can be unwilling to yield,
so the Crab may have to accept giving in.
What's the best
aspect
of the Aries-Cancer relationship? Once they realize they're on the
same
team, the combination of Fire and Water works well together. Aries is
out there getting attention and Cancer is quietly supporting the back
end. Each partner's ability to provide what the other is lacking makes
theirs an equal relationship.
