When two Cancerians come together in a love affair, a
loving and yet very emotional domestic relationship ensues. A
Cancer-Cancer match makes for a deeply devoted duo, endlessly loyal to
one another. Both will learn the ins-and-outs of their partner, the
best
ways to heat each other up or, if necessary, to cool one another down.
Both will also find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying
commitment to one another. This couple is faithful and caring, helpful
and sympathetic of individual needs and very oriented toward making a
home and creating a sense of family -- especially when they can get
over
their brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits. If they can find
a
way to keep their fluid and moody emotions in check, this relationship
will nurture both lovers.
A Cancer's place is in the home. Once
safely entrenched in their personal sanctuary, the moody Crab may
forget
about the world outside, not paying mind to the opinions of others,
only
concerned with what's going on behind their own closed doors. This
attitude carries over into relationships: Like their cherished
possessions and material comforts, Cancer never hesitates to defend a
loved one if threatened. This devotion and willingness to fight and
toil
for the survival and success of their relationships are really a
Crab's
greatest contributions to the game of love. It's no wonder Cancer's
symbol is the 'crabby' scuttling Crab, for outbursts and flare-ups
are
common with this emotional crustacean. While their mood swings may
injure each other's feelings, it's a Cancer's subtle mastery of the
fine art of emotional manipulation that one should watch out for.
The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and this Sign is sensitive to
the moods that ebb and flow with the Moon's monthly cycles. The Moon,
the maternal orb of the heavens, is the celestial force behind
Cancer's
great maternal and care-giving nature. The energy of this instinct
creates a warm, secure home environment, a perfect love nest for the
growing and cultivation of a healthy relationship.
Cancer is a
Water Sign. Instinct and emotion drive this relationship. With these
deep, intense intuitive powers comes a fragility, as Cancer's feelings
are brittle and easily hurt. Hence, that Crabby shell in which they
hide
themselves when frightened or overwhelmed. So often retreating to their
shells can put a strain on any relationship with a Cancer, but two
Crabs
together will hopefully be perceptive of each other's needs for
personal space and temporary time-outs. The key is realizing that it's
not a personal slight if one of these Cancers wants some alone-time.
This Watery element of their nature can protect them and their loved
ones from the harsh realities of the outside world.
Cancer is a
Cardinal Sign. Though not the most physically active of the Signs, a
Cancer's quick emotional reflexes and powers of perception offer an
alternate line of defense under stress. The Crab is not shy about
getting exactly what they want from their partner. The protecting feral
beast within is the first emotional element to leap forward under
stress
or a threat to the pack. However, these bursts of emotion may overwhelm
a Cancer and crush their tender feelings. Fierce loyalty binds this
Cancer-Cancer love match, but it can also threaten its very existence.
Both partners must always strive to see things from their lover's
point
of view as well as their own.
What's the best thing about the
Cancer-Cancer love match? Their utter devotion to enriching their
commitment and the strong emotional bond between them. Together, this
pair will protect one another and keep their love safe from the outside
world, as well as work toward creating a happy domestic life and
nurturing a loving family.
