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Aug 15 2006
The Law of Attraction in the Game of Love

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17th of Aug, 2006

Wow!

21st of Aug, 2006

I will have to read your articles and listen more to your webcast. It seems like I have always been attracted to white or lighter skinned women rather than black women. I still can't figure out how am I but maybe you should answer that question for me. Can you give me a answer to why many black men like me are attracted to white or lighter-skinned women? Does it have to do with the way society pictures the white women or lighter-skinned women as desirable culturally or is in just in my mind only? I think that white women give me a deeper insight on relationships and they seem to put more into a relationship when they are with a black man but that is just coming from my experience only. I cannot speak for ever black man out there or only the black men who prefer to date only black women.

25th of Aug, 2006

Thank so much for this article. I really enjoyed the podcast. It really hit home because I have some forgiveness issues.

26th of Aug, 2006

This is vey interesting. Informative. Something to always keep in mind.

26th of Aug, 2006

Thank for the article but can somebody be attracted to someone at first sight and the relationship succeed in the future.

26th of Aug, 2006

Some very thought provoking points-Thanks!

29th of Aug, 2006

I think it's all physical from when you first meet but then you get to know the person and that's the deciding factor. You can meet someone that's very sexy but their attitude may be a big turn off.

29th of Aug, 2006

Its interesting to read but I am not sure that I agree with all of that......I mean sometimes attraction can happen at first site....

30th of Aug, 2006

I agree with some of the things you say, but for me, attractions happen at first sight.

30th of Aug, 2006

I MUST NEED HELP IN ATTRACTING THE RIGHT MAN FOR ME, I LOVE THIS SUTE BUT IT SEEMS ALL THE SO CALLED PLAYAS , TRY ME,I THINK I'M OLD ENOUGH TO TELL GAME WHEN I HEAR IT......AND THEN I HAVE TO PUT THERE TAIL IN CHECK, MAYBE I'M A LIL TO MUCH FOR MOST MEN TO HANDLE......BUT I STILL SAY, IF YOU WANT TO TALK TO ME, AS THE WOMAN I AM......THEN APPROACH ME IN THE RIGHT WAY, IF NOT KEEP STEPPIN........

31st of Aug, 2006

pretty interesting stuff!!!

1st of Sep, 2006

well this might be true, but it is kinda complicated stuff for something very easy to understand!

1st of Sep, 2006

Interesting read. Practical too. Thanks!

1st of Sep, 2006

How can one overcome attraction of older married lady?

2nd of Sep, 2006

I can tell by this article (Law of attraction) that DR. WRIGHT is a Christian, however she did not mention it. I could be wrong though, so my question is are you a Christian DR. Wright?

2nd of Sep, 2006

Prior comment, I was referring to Anisa Aven Not Dr. Wright Please make the correction.

2nd of Sep, 2006

Although we did not agree with everything my sweetheart and I thought this was a great article.

3rd of Sep, 2006

How can you overcome an attraction of an older married woman?

3rd of Sep, 2006

God is the ULTIMATE matchmaker,he knows best so i await him!

4th of Sep, 2006

SEEMS LIKE TO ME, EVERYBODY I'M ATTRACTED TO, ISNT TOWARDS ME!!!

4th of Sep, 2006

WE SHOULD ALWAYS TRY TO FOCUS ON THE POSITIVES IN LIFE... SO MANY OF US ARE UNAWARE OF HOW WE CAN TALK INTO EXISTENCE THE NEGATIVE ASPECTS IN A MATE....

4th of Sep, 2006

What do you do when you know its over but you cannot come to terms with the truth? Kenya

4th of Sep, 2006

THANK YOU VERY MUCH FOR THE ADVICE...

5th of Sep, 2006

THANKS SO MUCH FOR THE ADVICE.

5th of Sep, 2006

I was wondering if there is any explanation as to why black men are often attracted to white women and why white women are often attracted to black men?

5th of Sep, 2006

Isn't this a spin of the self-fulling prophecy?

6th of Sep, 2006

ahhh so if the higher power has my best interests in mind please send me a MAN whom is handsome,athletic,rich,understanding,good cook that can clean house,repair stuff,honest,hard working,intelligent,has a great bod,attentive,passionate,tallented,and can leave the toilet seat down ta that will do for now ehhehehe

6th of Sep, 2006

I SAT HERE AND LISTENED TO THIS ARTICLE AND IT SEEMS THAT IT IS A BUNCH OF CRAP... LISTEN ATTRACTION IS A PART OF LIFE.. IF YOU ARE NOT ATTRACTED TO SOMEONE THEN THERE IS NO LOVE.. AND NO REALTIONSHIP.. I THINK THAT PEOPLE REALLY DONT KNOW WHY THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO OTHER MEN OR WOMEN.. I THINK IT IS ALL A LEARNING EXPERIENCE..AND TO BE HONEST I BELIEVE THAT NOT ONE REALTIONSHIP HAS BECOME FROM THE LAW OF ATTRACTION.. THERE IS GOING TO BE SOMETHING IN ONE ANOTHER YOU DONT FIND ATTRACTIVE .. THE MAIN PURPOSE HERE IS LOOK WITHIN THE HEART AND FEEL THAT NO MATTER WHAT DISLIKES YOU HAVE FOR SOMEONE THEY CAN BE OVERCOME.. JUST LOOK WITH IN YOURSELF AND SAY .. WE ALL FALL SHORT OF THE GLORY OF GOD AND WE ALL MUST HAVE FAITH THAT THIS IS AND THIS IS WHAT IT IS AND ACCEPT TEH GOOD WITH THE BAD AND WORK THROUGH IT...

7th of Sep, 2006

I think attraction only goes so far... once the initial attraction is over and you get to the guts of the relationship is what really counts!! I can find someone just walking down the street... but I choose to look for a man that is kind and going somewhere in life, non-smoker... as opposed to someone who is just letting life go by....but the right woman can encourage her man to strive and accomplish more than if he were alone. Laws of atrraction?? blah... I'd rather just be who I am and take it from there!!

7th of Sep, 2006

This is very good and interesting information. I appreciate you posting this interview!

8th of Sep, 2006

Wonderful article,keep them coming!

8th of Sep, 2006

some of this is true

9th of Sep, 2006

attracting a guy is easy. keeping him interested is the hard part!

9th of Sep, 2006

i believe attraction is like you said ,how a person makes you feel , i don't need tyra banks although i wouldnt complain if i had ger lol , a woman that is ordinary with a great personality to me is just as attractive as a super model

9th of Sep, 2006

It is all in how a person carries themselves......you know you have all seen a woman or a man with their significant other and thought...damn...how did they ever get them! Well, that other person may not have the looks or the body, but they have the attitude. Looks fade and the body sags but the attitude more then like will always stay. So if you believe in yourself and know exactly what you want and don't want, and live your life that way, I believe that the person we all search for is right in front of our face, we just have to open our eyes.

12th of Sep, 2006

I SO LONG AWAIT TO FIND A BEAUTIFUL WOMEN ON THE OUTSIDE!!!

12th of Sep, 2006

i hope to find a handsome hunk!!!

14th of Sep, 2006

I met a really nice white guy on this site the other day, we are a wonderful and perfect match; we will be taking the time to get to know each other however I am so scared I don't know what to do. I haven't been with a man in over 14yrs and I don't want to mess this up with him or any man for that matter. Can somebody help me because I want a husband, someone to love, honor, trust and enjoy intimacy?

14th of Sep, 2006

Well, I don't buy it. Some of it is true of course, but...nah.

7th of Oct, 2006

This is all good information, but it seems like I could never attract the right man. Seems like the ones I am attracted too are taken and the ones I am not attract too are all over me.

19th of Oct, 2006

This article was poorly written and difficult to read.

30th of Oct, 2006

This article is confusing and it didnt get anything from it???

3rd of Nov, 2006

Attraction is the first step. If you dont connect you might as well be dating a stuffed animal. Its cute and possably has as much personality.

3rd of Nov, 2006

Married and attached men are always buzzing around me. I guess most can't get past what they see physically. I believe in karma so not attracted to and never will date a married or attached man!

12th of Nov, 2006

Someone wrote "how can someone overcome attraction to older married lady?"...Answer is imagine her HUSBAND pounding you into a mound of dust!

3rd of Dec, 2006

Attraction must be at hand along with chemisrty

9th of Dec, 2006

Yes, "ask and it shall be given. Knock and it will be opened." What you think you receive. I think the articles metaphysical approach is right. So many times on this website, you will have daters, not respond because they don't think the profile of the pursuer is a match. But the universe will bring you an unexpected match and then everyone says "the site did not work. LOL

9th of Dec, 2006

great stuff......wow

19th of Dec, 2006

I love reading these...the comments are funny!

27th of Dec, 2006

I found the article to be interesting. To me attraction is purely physical at first but personality eventually overshadows the physical. Someone can be a beautiful person but with an ugly personality she becomes unattractive to me. I find the opposite to be true to a certain extent.

30th of Dec, 2006

Thanks for this! I needed it!

23rd of Jan, 2007

physical attraction is what first draws someone's attention. like 90% of the nation could agree with that one. but after the introduction is presented, the personality is what usually makes that person a diamond, or just a lame rock. u know lol i like to think that personality overrides the looks, but research shows that it doesnt. not in most cases.

19th of Feb, 2007

This article was very interesting. Thanks!

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