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May 10 2006
Success Story: Scarob
Comments
16th of May, 2006
Well written, well thought out and well said. Great that he points out the site is for the serious seeker, not an "adult" site.
This is not a red light district, as he stated - but a site full of wonderful, accomplished and beautiful women.
17th of May, 2006
Bravo Scarob! Loved your story. Impressed with the fact that all men out there are not looking for some porn like relationship via the internet. It is refreshing to know that there are some men that actually use this site to meet his/her potential mate. I actually took my photo off the site because 98% of the responses I got were of a salacious nature, and not the serious type I was looking for. Your story has given encouragement to those of us who had lost hope in finding someone on this site. I believe there are more out there like you, so ladies, don't give up. Good luck and best wishes to you Scarob and your mate.
Ethel
18th of May, 2006
I LOVED your story!!!It was well, written and to the point!!!! I'm still waiting to see if I want to look for a mate on this site! After reading your story, I just might give it a try! Good luck to you and your new lady!!!
19th of May, 2006
Your story was great! Honesty pays off. I have always been convinced that a person should be himself. Your story just sanctioned that theory. Best wishes to you and your lady.
23rd of May, 2006
I loved your story.It gives all of us hope.Your right honesty works. People are really busy and don't have time for the B***S***. I think I may have found someone on this site. Respect gets you a long way. Best Wishes to both of you!
8th of Jun, 2006
Scarob,
Hey. I just joined and I really appreciated your comment and happy for you and your mate. I totally agree, men need to stop and think about their behaviors on these sites. We are human and we do have feelings and looking for love and friendship. I hope you guys take heed to this message. I guess it will only work if your motives are in the right place.
Thanks Scarob and best of luck to you.
12th of Jun, 2006
EXCELLENT. If there were more men like you on this site, who were seriously looking and not playing or treating the women like hookers, I think more people WOULD be happy. And that goes for the women too, who look at men in the wrong light. I hope it works for you.
1st of Sep, 2006
Thanks for sharing this Scarob. Makes one want to stick it out a little bit longer. 6,000 is a LOT to have to go thru to get what you want, but..at the end of the day, if you have within your arms the person who touches your soul...it was all worthwhile.
Be Blessed.
4th of Sep, 2006
Love reading your story. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Good luck and wishes to both of you.
4th of Sep, 2006
Best Wishes
14th of Sep, 2006
I guess you have the patience of a saint. Best of luck to you!
14th of Sep, 2006
Good luck.
16th of Sep, 2006
Scarob,
You said it all to the men for the educated intelligent women of color. Most of us are not looking just for sex and money. We have great minds that are stimulating as well. The married men, the cheaters and the cheaps are real turn offs.
Thank you!!!
19th of Sep, 2006
Don't mind the haterz Sir Rob...keep on doing you thing. Hola...
21st of Sep, 2006
congrats Rob wish you luck and all the best
patience counts
23rd of Sep, 2006
I hope you do really well. Good luck!!!
25th of Sep, 2006
I am so happy for you...I pray for you and a successful life and long term success in all you do..God Bless
26th of Sep, 2006
wow, that is amazing!! Hopefully one day some can come at me like that! That is a wonderful story, thanks for sharing!
29th of Sep, 2006
congratulations. i hope i can put a story to be successful. God bless
7th of Oct, 2006
Congratulations and best wishes!
Maybe one day I'll be able to write one of these stories.
13th of Oct, 2006
Congratulations and thank you for telling the others how to be a gentleman... except now the jerks can hide behind a good ruse--LOL
4th of Nov, 2006
WELL I MUST ADMITT I WAS SHOCKED TO READ THIS ARTICLE AND AMAZED THAT HE WOULD TAKE THE TIME TO LET THE MEN OF THIS SITE KNOW JUST WHAT IT IS TO BE A MAN.. LISTEN MEN IN ORDER TO FIND A WOMAN YOU HAVE TO BE A GENTLEMAN.. I WAS ABOUT TO GIVE UP LOL... A LIL LOVE ROMANCE AND TENDER WORDS WILL GO A LONG WAY.. CONGRATULATIONS ON THE INTERVIEW LOVE.. AND ALL THE BEST WISHES IN THE FUTURE..
6th of Nov, 2006
I have read this story twice and appreciate your advice to the men. Some are married, some are cheaters and some are only looking for sex. It is very offensive for the men to TRY to treat us like objects. Notice. I said try.
9th of Nov, 2006
this is an amazing story.God brought u both together for a reason and i know both of u will make that reason to shine.just believe and pray to God for guidance.congrats to both of u.
9th of Nov, 2006
this is an amazing story.all the best in the future.
22nd of Nov, 2006
good luck and best of wishes.
20th of Dec, 2006
I truly hope that success story is authentic....I would love to be that fortunate here on this site.
29th of Dec, 2006
What a great story!! Best of luck to a truly fortunate couple
5th of Jan, 2007
Well done boy, i only wish other men on here are as human as you are......Like you said, some thot it's an adult site. And the 1st thing that comes to their minds once you give them a chance to say hi is flashing your body for them. But by doing that, they dont know they are blowing it, and loosing out on good thigs of life... W**kers!!!
6th of Jan, 2007
MUCH congrats to you both!
10th of Jan, 2007
Nice story. I\'m new here and I\'m always worried when I join a dating group, wondering if it legit, and after reading your story. I think I\'ll post a pic...see what comes up.
23rd of Feb, 2007
WOW, I hope everyone listens. Congrats on your happiness
23rd of Feb, 2007
I wish Scarob and his mate all the happiness in the world.
He gave very good tips regarding internet dating. He apparently was \\\"one\\\" sincere and serious seeker. I wasn\\\'t going to post a picture, but will give it a go...
14th of Jan, 2008
Well after all that and you came up a winner, you must be one heck of a guy,congrats to you both!
Well written, well thought out and well said. Great that he points out the site is for the serious seeker, not an "adult" site. This is not a red light district, as he stated - but a site full of wonderful, accomplished and beautiful women.